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Your Mom taught your first Words, now give her some Wonderful Words Back
By Madelyn Miller, the TravelLady
Life Messages for Moms:
Inspiration for a Mother’s Spirit
This
is a lovely new book of thoughts from 27 women – many from the Bay Area - about
the joys and challenges of being a mother.
This book addresses a wide range of timely motherhood
issues – everything from becoming a mother after age 40 to the vastly
underappreciated and undervalued role of mothers in this country.
Here’s what author Josephine Carlton has to say about the
book:
“Motherhood sometimes seems a daunting task but I think
mothers need to trust their instincts when it comes to raising children. We have
many philosophies about what we should or should not do, perhaps too many
conflicting ideas. Basically, mothers need to trust in themselves. We must
realize that there is no perfect mother or child. It is a job to be taken
seriously and the most important bit of wisdom I can give is to make that child
feel loved. Appreciate their uniqueness and help them understand their
particular talents and abilities. Mothers will make mistakes but as long as the
child knows it is loved, they will have a positive platform. The best mother is
a happy mother, children are little sponges, soaking up what they see in the
behavior of their primary caregiver. It is so important what we show them by
example. Teach them to be good people, unselfish and interested in the world
around them. Don't be afraid to say "no". The word "no" comes along frequently
in life, it is a word that children need to become familiar with. Remember, they
will have many friends but only one mother. I can tell you from experience that
they will appreciate your guidance when they grow up. They may balk at the time
but what you are telling them is sinking in.
“I happen to be the proud mother of three magical
children. Many times they mentioned that I should write a book about motherhood
and their wish became a reality. I asked each of them what "mothering"
suggestions they considered the most remarkable and helpful in their individual
lives. It was interesting for me to hear what they had to say, since the art of
mothering is so comprehensive. My eldest stated that learning "respect" was the
most valuable lesson for her. She feels that we see too much disrespect in the
world on many levels. Also, she mentioned the fact that no one got away with
anything and being taught discipline has served her well. My middle daughter
said that being taught "gratitude" stands out in her mind. She feels grateful
for who she is and the opportunities that life presents her. She has also
learned to show gratefulness to others, exhibiting that gratitude on many
levels. My son, the youngest, indicated that he learned the value of creating
"happiness" in his life. Learning that we have one life to live and to
appreciate it. For him the importance of living a life with a sense of humor and
finding a career that he is passionate about were tantamount. He learned that
being happy is a choice.
“Certainly the most inspirational person in my life was
my own mother. She was an example of patience, love, and unselfishness. How
fortunate I was to experience these qualities growing up. I had such deep
respect for her that I wanted to earn her respect, as well. I now know that she
created this atmosphere of mutual respect and it worked. I wanted to achieve
this with my own children, and it made mothering so much easier.
“All things said, remember that being a mother is a
difficult job, but the most rewarding and important one on the planet. What
could be more important than creating and nurturing the future generation? Enjoy
the magnificent experience of motherhood and create memories for the future.
“Just as we need to feed our children to give them
sustenance for survival, so too must we nourish their spirits in order to
prepare them for their place in the world.”
More on the author at:
www.josephinecarlton.com
The 246 pages, hardcover book is also remarkably
affordable: just $6.98 available at all Barnes & Noble stores and at
www.bn.com. That’s not a typo: the book costs six dollars and ninety eight
cents.
The
Woman Who Is Always Tan And Has A Flat Stomach (And Other Annoying People)
It's the perfect Mother's Day for all women, especially the
woman on the go who needs a book she can read here and there with short chapters
packed full of fun!
The Woman Who is Always Tan and Has A Flat Stomach, is the
manual for everyday women who are trapped by overachievers, do-gooders and
perfectionists. The self-deprecating humor of authors Lauren Allison and Lisa
Perry, PsyD, will provide comic relief and stories to share with close friends
and family.
The Woman Who is Always Tan pokes fun at the little
insecurities we all have and provides us with an honest look at how we might
exaggerate the talents of others and minimize the talents we possess, or
vice-versa.
Just to give you an idea of the comic relief provided by
authors Allison and Perry, here are a few chapter titles from this award winning
book:
Chapter 4: The Wife Who Stood in Line for Two Hours
at Krispy Kreme’s and Then Ordered Only Two Donuts
Chapter 11: The Conspiracy Among Men To Be Annoying
Just Before You Have Company
Chapter 18: The Infomercial Couple Who Start Every
Sentence With, “But Wait! There’s More!”
Chapter 23: The Husband Who Has A Cold But Believes
It’s Malaria
OH, LORD, I SOUND JUST LIKE MAMA
Have
you ever opened your mouth, Mom’s words popped out, and you thought, “Oh, Lord,
I Sound Just Like Mama”? That’s just what the longest selling book in the gift
market is all about.
This best-selling book – OH, LORD, I SOUND JUST LIKE MAMA –
is a collection of funny advice and anecdotes women remember from their mothers
and grandmothers. And then it turns out they give the same advice to their own
kids.
As daughter, a mom and a grandmom, Alpern took the title
right from her own experiences and reinforces the findings of many researchers
about how much daughters follow in their mothers’ footsteps. As she explains:
“It’s universal. We swear never to repeat Mom’s mistakes or take her advice,
then out pop her words. Yesterday’s toddlers are today’s mothers, giving the
advice they swore they never would. They’re shocked!”
Some of the tidbits of advice featured in the book include:
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-“ Act normal in front of the relatives.”
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- “If you eat chocolate mousse your legs will grow
together.”
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- “You can do anything you want to with a boy, but I’ll
be sitting on your shoulder and you won’t enjoy it.”
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- From a four-year-old: “Never put sand in your mouth
or down your pants.”
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- From a 96-year-old: “Every woman deserves an orchid
for her soul.”
“I was inspired to write ‘Mama’ after a friend trying to be
SuperMom said, ‘I wish I’d followed Mom’s advice to aim high and settle.’ The
light bulb flashed and I replied, ‘You’d never say that to a son.’ “
www.humorbreak.com
Lalpern650@mindspring.com
Madelyn Miller is a writer and web entrepreneur who writes
for
www.travellady.com,
www.carladynews.com,
www.chocolateatlas.com, and
www.cocktailatlas.com. She has several more websites planned.
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