How to Keep the Flame Alive While Traveling Together
1.
Plan the trip together and talk about activities you'll enjoy as a couple.
Advance planning eliminates the need (and stress) of planning while on
the road.
2. Allow for spontaneity. It's okay to go
"off the plan." This is a good time to try something
you've never done together before and share that experience!
3. Give each other some space. Couples often
fall into the trap of thinking they have to do
everything together. Spending some time apart and allowing your
partner to do something he or she enjoys is one of the best gifts you can
give.
4. Pack a few romantic items-lovely lingerie, aromatic
oil, a small scented candle or a CD of your favorite music.
5. Select a destination that "feels"
romantic for both-keeping in mind that each person
may have different "signals" for romance. It may be a warm
beach, a cozy fireplace or an isolated cabin.
6. Use the luxury of extra time together to give
little "presents"-a soothing foot massage after a long walk, a
surprise bottle of wine or a love note left on the pillow.
7. Anticipate the stress that goes along with
traveling and talk about how you will handle potentially difficult moments
together like airport delays, lost luggage, and getting lost. And
remember: don't blame your partner!
8. One of the most common sources of strain in a
relationship is money. Set a budget and talk about
expenses. Each partner should have a little "mad money" to
spend as he or she pleases; but discuss big purchases.
9.
Pace yourself. Exhausting yourself during the day will leave you too
tired in the evening to enjoy each other.
10. Talk to each other. A trip together is a
wonderful time to share lots of good
conversations, feelings, hopes, expectations and fears. And tell your
partner how much you love and appreciate the relationship.
Compiled by Hyatt Regency Maui's Aloha Services staff
with the advice of Dr. Tracy Cabot, noted
author and relationship psychologist.
Hyatt Regency Maui Resort &
Spa
Spa
Moana for Couples. Couples at Hyatt Regency Maui can experience a
private lesson in couples massage at Spa Moana, the new
spa at Hyatt Regency Maui. Couples are invited to
book the private spa suite where they can enjoy treatments in tandem.
Tour of the Stars. Couples will want to
venture to the rooftop on Friday or Saturday at 11
p.m. This for-couples-only celestial show takes guests on guided
tour of the stars and includes complimentary champagne and strawberries.
Cost is $20 per person for resort guests, or $25 for the general
public.
Private
Oceanside Dining. With the Pacific Ocean in the background, and a
private dinner just steps from the Ka'anapali shore, the
evening begins with a champagne toast, and is
followed by an elegant dinner for two: a bottle of wine
or champagne, a selection of appetizers, soup or salad, entrees, and desserts.
Dinner is prepared by the executive chef at Swan Court, the resort's fine
dining restaurant. Cost of $395 includes a personal butler, tax and gratuity.
Reservations are available from 6:30 p.m. Twenty-four hour advance notice
is required.
Hyatt Regency Maui
(808) 661-1234
www.maui.hyatt.com
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Edited by Dave Shultz