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Rekindle Romance on the Road

10 Tips for Romance on the Road:

How to Keep the Flame Alive While Traveling Together

1. Plan the trip together and talk about activities you'll enjoy as a couple. Advance planning eliminates the need (and stress) of planning while on the road.

2. Allow for spontaneity. It's okay to go "off the plan." This is a good time to try something you've never done together before and share that experience!

3. Give each other some space. Couples often fall into the trap of thinking they have to do everything together. Spending some time apart and allowing your partner to do something he or she enjoys is one of the best gifts you can give.

4. Pack a few romantic items-lovely lingerie, aromatic oil, a small scented candle or a CD of your favorite music.

5. Select a destination that "feels" romantic for both-keeping in mind that each person may have different "signals" for romance. It may be a warm beach, a cozy fireplace or an isolated cabin.

6. Use the luxury of extra time together to give little "presents"-a soothing foot massage after a long walk, a surprise bottle of wine or a love note left on the pillow.

7. Anticipate the stress that goes along with traveling and talk about how you will handle potentially difficult moments together like airport delays, lost luggage, and getting lost. And remember: don't blame your partner!

8. One of the most common sources of strain in a relationship is money. Set a budget and talk about expenses. Each partner should have a little "mad money" to spend as he or she pleases; but discuss big purchases.

9. Pace yourself. Exhausting yourself during the day will leave you too tired in the evening to enjoy each other.

10. Talk to each other. A trip together is a wonderful time to share lots of good conversations, feelings, hopes, expectations and fears. And tell your partner how much you love and appreciate the relationship.

Compiled by Hyatt Regency Maui's Aloha Services staff with the advice of Dr. Tracy Cabot, noted author and relationship psychologist.

Hyatt Regency Maui Resort & Spa

Spa Moana for Couples. Couples at Hyatt Regency Maui can experience a private lesson in couples massage at Spa Moana, the new spa at Hyatt Regency Maui. Couples are invited to book the private spa suite where they can enjoy treatments in tandem.

Tour of the Stars. Couples will want to venture to the rooftop on Friday or Saturday at 11 p.m. This for-couples-only celestial show takes guests on guided tour of the stars and includes complimentary champagne and strawberries. Cost is $20 per person for resort guests, or $25 for the general public.

Private Oceanside Dining. With the Pacific Ocean in the background, and a private dinner just steps from the Ka'anapali shore, the evening begins with a champagne toast, and is followed by an elegant dinner for two: a bottle of wine or champagne, a selection of appetizers, soup or salad, entrees, and desserts. Dinner is prepared by the executive chef at Swan Court, the resort's fine dining restaurant. Cost of $395 includes a personal butler, tax and gratuity. Reservations are available from 6:30 p.m. Twenty-four hour advance notice is required.

Hyatt Regency Maui
(808) 661-1234
www.maui.hyatt.com

Photos of Hyatt Regency courtesy of Hyatt Regency Maui

Edited by Dave Shultz

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