Second Time Around: A Wedding To Remember
Edited by Jennifer L. Price
 Many young girls dream of fairy tale weddings, complete
with big wedding gowns, a bevy of bridesmaids and groomsmen, and the ceremonial
cutting of the cake. But for the growing population of divorced couples who have
found love again, the "Been there, done that" philosophy has prevailed. Couples
often wonder if it is appropriate to celebrate, with children involved and a lot
of money to be spent; the overwhelming decision is "you betcha." "Why would
someone not want to celebrate their last wedding?" remarks Mindy Smith, Director
of Food & Beverage at Ponte Family Estate Winery. The older and wiser
brides agree that a beautiful wedding day is the right choice and the perfect
way to begin a new life together.
 What
brides retying the knot lack is time, which is why many brides find the Ponte
Family Estate so appealing. You are surrounded by mature vineyards and lush
gardens; onsite coordinating is available, taking a big responsibility off the
shoulders of the bride, and of course, there is delicious cuisine and wine.
Encore brides will often forgo the church ceremony, opting instead for the
outdoor setting of the winery and writing their own vows. Second weddings seem
to be smaller and more intimate, so the romantic Barrel Room at Ponte Winery is
the perfect choice for the reception. The enticing appearance and aroma of aging
oak wine barrels sets the mood for celebrating a stylish soiree and is very
romantic with candles placed on the barrels around the perimeter of the room,
and on the guest tables. A stunning and refined look.
Couples will spend a larger part of their budgeted funds on
flowers and live music, rather than party favors and chocolate fountains. It's
more about the look and feel of the celebration than trying to live up to
childhood dreams. Then after the event, the honeymoon is more about a family
vacation, including all the kids. Out is the mandatory sister-in-law bridesmaid,
as she is replaced with children or a very close friend. No $5000 wedding
dresses are required, as a stunning champagne-colored gown or flowing pant suit
is more fashionable. The mature bride has no interest in tossing the garter or
bouquet; instead an "Anniversary Dance" takes place to celebrate a long and
healthy marriage. Traditions that seem sweet for a 20-year old bride are less
suited for a mature bride. The first dance between the bride and father is
often not considered an option, but an endearing dance with a son, or daughter
is.
 The
food and high-quality wine is also a very important element. The Winery Chef has created specially selected
menus that appeal to encore brides and provide many choices of Filet Mignon,
fresh fish, lamb, and gourmet stuffed chicken. A wedding cake is often
nonexistent or only a small representation is present. Instead, beautifully
presented desserts are requested. You have the option of mini desserts with
such treats as chocolate covered strawberries, fresh fruit tarts, mini éclairs
and petit fours.
A kiss is still a kiss… encore brides are just a nervous as
a first time bride when the big day finally arrives. The sweet satisfaction that
you have found the "man of your dreams" and that you are making a commitment to
him is just as magical the second time around and Ponte Winery can help make it
beautiful.
For more information, visit
www.pontewinery.com to fill out a wedding information request form or call
(877)314-WINE (9463) - Toll Free
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